2nd Pregnancy, My 1st daughter has LOBPI

Forum for parents of injured who are seeking information from other parents or people living with the injury. All welcome
tylergsmom
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: Hi! I am Laura, the mom of Tyler, who has a ROBPI. I've been a member of this site since 1998 and owe a great deal to the wonderful people in the UBPN community who have helped us along the way get what we needed to get done for Tyler. Tyler is now 14 years old and in the 9th grade. He's a super bright kid and loves his video games. Tyler had the mod quad surgery with Dr. Shenaq shortly before he passed. That was his first and only surgery. Now that he is older he is requesting additional surgery. He'd like to be able to supinate. Our goal is for Summer 2013.
Location: Gulf Breeze, FL

Re: 2nd Pregnancy, My 1st daughter has LOBPI

Post by tylergsmom »

My first son was born almost 6 years ago with a RBPI. I gave birth to a 2nd son 1 year ago with a different OB and everything went perfect. My OB was aware of what happened during the first birth and made sure to take extra good care of me. To take precautions though, she did induce me nearly 3 weeks early and my son (at 3 weeks early) was still 8lbs 5oz.
Laura LeNoir, Mom of Tyler, Age 14, ROBPI
tylergsmom
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: Hi! I am Laura, the mom of Tyler, who has a ROBPI. I've been a member of this site since 1998 and owe a great deal to the wonderful people in the UBPN community who have helped us along the way get what we needed to get done for Tyler. Tyler is now 14 years old and in the 9th grade. He's a super bright kid and loves his video games. Tyler had the mod quad surgery with Dr. Shenaq shortly before he passed. That was his first and only surgery. Now that he is older he is requesting additional surgery. He'd like to be able to supinate. Our goal is for Summer 2013.
Location: Gulf Breeze, FL

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Post by tylergsmom »

Oh, I forgot to mention that I did not have a c-section with my 2nd son. I was only in labor for a couple of hours, pushing for only 30 minutes and he nearly shot right out---it was just obvioulsy a much better OB, hospital, labor and all.
Laura LeNoir, Mom of Tyler, Age 14, ROBPI
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Oh, Tobie:

Do I feel for you. My second child was LOBPI, and I went on to have a third last year via C-section, just like you. Everything went PERFECTLY!

I do have to admit that when they gave me the epidural in preparation for the C-section, I broke down sobbing out of the exact same fears you have: "What if it happens again? I am so terrified!" But it didn't happen again. In fact, after my daughter was born, the first thing I asked was not: "Is she breathing?" or "How many fingers does she have?" It was: "HOW ARE HER ARMS?!?!" (Answer: Perfect!)

A C-section is a very wise move on your part. It is safest for your child. Think about it: shoulder dystocia isn't going to happen when baby is lifted up and out, rather than coming out the normal way!

You probably will continue to feel freaked out until it is all over - that is normal. But you're doing the right thing. Keep us posted on how it turns out. And try not to worry too much.

Best to you,
Janet
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Just had my second baby. My first baby was robpi. I had a scheduled c-section at 38 1/2 weeks and everything went perfect. Good luck and congrats!
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Post by m&mmom »

My first child was born with a bpi injury, so was my second. However I know a few women who have had normal deliveries after a bpi child.

I know it was mentioned here that bpi can't result from a c-section. The chances of it happening are smaller however it can still happen.

Cindy
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Cindy, was it with the same Doctor? If different Doctor, was he/she aware of your problem with the first one.

Thanks,
Susana
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Post by tcon »

I had my 2nd via c-section in december and it was wonderful. I thought the c-section recovery was 100% better than delivering a 10lb baby. Good luck
christi
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Post by christi »

I am going through the same thing...I am due with my 4th child, via c-section on June 23. Our 3rd child suffered a bpi to her left arm 20 months ago. I have totally dominated my new ob, expressing everything and even stating that I know he will do what is best for me and the baby but I still do not have the trust there. This will be my first c-section and I am just so scared/nervous as the day approaches. It is comforting to hear other mom's who have had healthy babies after a bpi injury. Best of luck to you and I pray all goes well for you and your new baby!!
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Different doctor. The ob that I chose with Matthew was well aware of Melanie's injury. I started calling offices and interviewing them before I even got pregnant. I was supposed to have a c-section until he sent me for a consult with a high risk ob who said no c. The plan then changed to inducing early to avoid a large baby. Sounded ok at the time but learned afterwards that I had gestational diabetes and was not diagnosed. Matthew was 10lbs 6oz 2 weeks early. He was supposed to be around 7lbs 9oz according to the ultrasound. He had the same measurements at Melanie so I felt comfortable with being induced. Only problem is the ultrasound couldn't measure the baby's fat. He was born the same length as her just heavier.

Cindy
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