New here, comments on our situation welcomed
Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 12:15 pm
Hello, I will try to make a long story short. My husband's arm is paralyzed. He and his family started noticing when he was a boy, say, before age 7 or earlier that his fingers were not fully functional. They are not fully sure how this happened, possibly injured during a difficult birth--As time passed, though he still had full movement and function in his arm, it was notably weaker and smaller than the other arm. By the time he was entering high school, his parents found a doctor who thought he could help him. The dr. did a tendon transfer surgery, taking the good tendon from his elbow area and put it to work his fingers. The idea was that if they could gain full function in his hand, he would use his arm more, consequently, it was "supposed" to gain more strength. Sadly, by now, the arm is totally useless. It appears to me, though I wasn't in the picture yet, that all that the surgery did was hasten the deterioration of the arm. It now hangs limp, has no muscle whatsoever. The muscles in his shoulder, back and chest have all deteriorated. He has no or very little feeling in it.
To make matters worse, since it's always hanging in the way, he injured it this summer by scratching it on something. Now, the wound since July has not healed yet...
I'm so worried about him. I married him knowing full well the problems with his arm, but I must admit I did not foresee how this situation could become worse. I worry that he will wear his good arm out. He gets headaches because his neck is always out of whack from the muscle deterioration.
I am just wondering if there's anyone else out there who has simililar problems, any ideas, or anyone who can help him. Thanks so much.
To make matters worse, since it's always hanging in the way, he injured it this summer by scratching it on something. Now, the wound since July has not healed yet...
I'm so worried about him. I married him knowing full well the problems with his arm, but I must admit I did not foresee how this situation could become worse. I worry that he will wear his good arm out. He gets headaches because his neck is always out of whack from the muscle deterioration.
I am just wondering if there's anyone else out there who has simililar problems, any ideas, or anyone who can help him. Thanks so much.