New with lots of questions . . .
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2001 5:45 pm
Hi and hello to all. I just found this board and it is right at a time that we are dealing with my stepson's bpi. I would like to explain his story so that you all understand where we are coming from before I ask questions. (I am a talker, so sit back and get a cup of coffee! Lol!).
Trent, my ss, was born with a bpi. To be honest that is about all I know about what happened to him. His dad said that he had gotten "stuck" at birth and he saw the Dr. twist his head while getting him out. Of course, he is the only one who saw this as none of the nurses backed him up and the Dr. never admitted to it. Trent received therapy (and in my lack of knowledge, I don't even know what kind of therapy you get for this type of injury) until he was about a year old. He is 4 now. My husband - Trent's dad - and his now X split up about the time that Trent was a year old. When my husband left the home, Trent lost his medical insurance. For reasons unknown to us, his mother never pursued his therapy although she had state assistance (including assistance for his type of injury). Trent came to live with us in June of this year full time, and in doing some research, I have found that we can get him back on the state program for special needs children and get his therapy again. We are waiting to get him an evaluation before we can start the process since it has been so long since he was last seen for this.
As you can imagine, this is pretty new to me. I don't really understand what happened internally except that he had some nerves damaged at birth. I have been with Trent and his dad for about 2 years now and since I will be the one contacting the Dr.'s and setting up things for him, I am indeed interested in what is going on - or what happened - to Trent. I know that physically Trent has limited range of motion of his right arm. It is smaller, and does not respond like his left arm. (Although I am amazed by what this kid can accomplish - good and bad Lol! - with his handicap).
Where can I get information about my ss's injury? I have read through the forum here and a little on the main page before I decided to post. I have heard a lot of talk about surgeries on the forum. What are the surgeries for? Are they something that is recommended often for these injuries?
My husband has said that he was told that by 4-6 Trent would have his nerves healed and just the muscle will need to be worked on. Has this happened to anyone? Is it a long process to get the muscles working properly? Is this where the surgeries come into play? (I saw a post where after one of the surgeries a little girl could reach over her head).
A lot of questions, I know, and I am sorry. I just want to be informed so that I can help my stepson as much as possible.
Thank you to all!
Mel!
Trent, my ss, was born with a bpi. To be honest that is about all I know about what happened to him. His dad said that he had gotten "stuck" at birth and he saw the Dr. twist his head while getting him out. Of course, he is the only one who saw this as none of the nurses backed him up and the Dr. never admitted to it. Trent received therapy (and in my lack of knowledge, I don't even know what kind of therapy you get for this type of injury) until he was about a year old. He is 4 now. My husband - Trent's dad - and his now X split up about the time that Trent was a year old. When my husband left the home, Trent lost his medical insurance. For reasons unknown to us, his mother never pursued his therapy although she had state assistance (including assistance for his type of injury). Trent came to live with us in June of this year full time, and in doing some research, I have found that we can get him back on the state program for special needs children and get his therapy again. We are waiting to get him an evaluation before we can start the process since it has been so long since he was last seen for this.
As you can imagine, this is pretty new to me. I don't really understand what happened internally except that he had some nerves damaged at birth. I have been with Trent and his dad for about 2 years now and since I will be the one contacting the Dr.'s and setting up things for him, I am indeed interested in what is going on - or what happened - to Trent. I know that physically Trent has limited range of motion of his right arm. It is smaller, and does not respond like his left arm. (Although I am amazed by what this kid can accomplish - good and bad Lol! - with his handicap).
Where can I get information about my ss's injury? I have read through the forum here and a little on the main page before I decided to post. I have heard a lot of talk about surgeries on the forum. What are the surgeries for? Are they something that is recommended often for these injuries?
My husband has said that he was told that by 4-6 Trent would have his nerves healed and just the muscle will need to be worked on. Has this happened to anyone? Is it a long process to get the muscles working properly? Is this where the surgeries come into play? (I saw a post where after one of the surgeries a little girl could reach over her head).
A lot of questions, I know, and I am sorry. I just want to be informed so that I can help my stepson as much as possible.
Thank you to all!
Mel!