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Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 1:44 pm
by Bridget
Today is Ian's ninth birthday...every year this day brings with it the same curious mixture of happiness and grief, for Ian's birthday was the most traumatic experience of my life. It was also the most beautiful. It has been so hard to reconcile over the years these two conflicting emotional pulls, and perhaps it will always be that way.

At least for now I feel that I have been able to finally accept and even embrace these contrasting feelings. Reality, and our (mine and Ian's) experiences are what they are. There is nothing I can do to change the past, but there is so much I can do to make the future bright for my son, and so much for me to cherish about him right now!

I love my son so much, he is truly the shining star in my life.

Happy Birthday, Ian!

Mom

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 3:34 pm
by CW1992
Happy 9th birthday Ian!! I hope that your day is filled with all of your favorite things! Bridget, I hope your day goes well and you have fun celebrating all of the reasons Ian is loved so much!:)
It was nice to see a post from you,
Best wishes for a great day and year,
Christy

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 3:54 pm
by njbirk
Happy Birthday to Ian.
Wow, 9 years old. Awesome. How time flies.

Treasure the day, Bridget, with all of its varying emotions. It is all part of what makes Ian who he is and you who you are.

He has a very bright future in front of him. I am watching him grow up with delight in my heart.

Nancy

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 5:47 pm
by francine
Happy Birthday Ian!! Hope your day is just wonderful!
-francine

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 6:02 pm
by Kathleen M
Wow Nine already...

Enjoy this special Birthday... and hopefully the mixed emotions will someday disappear...

Happy Birthday to Ian and to his Mommy too...
Enjoy this day... Birthday's are so special

Love
Kath

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 8:04 pm
by cybermomx4
Happy Birthday Ian !!!
Hope you have a great day !!!

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 8:33 pm
by admin
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO IAN!!
9 Years old!...I can't wait to see my girls when they are 9! It seems like it's forever from now, but I know how fast time flies! Hope you both had a great day!
Krista

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:04 pm
by Allison
Happy Birthday to Ian! I hope your day is very special and filled with much hapiness. 9 is such a great age!

Re: Ian's Birthday

Posted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:26 pm
by Kristie
Bridget and Ian,
We wish you a very happy 9th Birthday!! We are sooooo happy you were born!
Blessings,
Kristie and Ian