New to BPI...I Think
Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2012 11:24 am
Hi All,
I have perused this message board and based on the supportive responses I've seen, I was encouraged to post my circumstances. I'm hesitant, because I don't even know if I'm supposed to be here, but will not see my son's doctor for a few days and as you know, once you think something is wrong, it can be an agonizing wait.
Let me start from the beginning. Four months ago my son was born sunny side up in a vaginal delivery. He had difficulty coming out and a vacuum was used. There was no indication that anything was physically wrong with him and I never heard any mention of BPI or the like. He suffers from severe reflux and milk intolerance so the last four months have been spent trying to get him medicated properly as well as finding a formula that he could tolerate. My husband, mother and I have been preoccupied with this as it affected his eating and sleeping. Now that he seems to be settled in that regard, we all noticed, practically simultaneously, that he has a habit of holding his left arm down, with the wrist turned. Of course, I googled it, found BPI, and scheduled an appointment with his pediatrician. In the meantime, I've been reading posts and have not come across an example that seems as mild as what I am observing (and I feel very fortunate that this is the case - my heart goes out to everyone who is dealing with more serious cases). I'm just concerned that if I see my pediatrician and tell her what I'm observing, she'll dismiss it because of all the positives I detail below. So I'm looking for thoughts from those who have been through this.
My son moves both of his arms, though if I had to choose I would say he favors the right arm (the one I am not concerned about). He seems to have full use of the left arm - fingers, wrist, elbow, shoulder - grips my fingers very well with that hand and will wave it around just as much as he does the right arm (he tends to move a lot when he's refluxing). That's the good. The bad - when I change his onesies, he will usually cry when I'm putting his left arm in a sleeve. When he does tummy time, his instinct is to put the left arm down and use the right arm to push up. If I move the left arm into the same position it will stay there, but he is definitely putting pressure/leaning right. He only looks to the right (away from the injured arm) when he's on his stomach and turning his head is hard. For the first few months, he tended to look to the right all the time and we had to work on that to avoid misshaping his head. He doesn't seem to look to the right only when on his back or in a swing anymore but he definitely does it when on his stomach. When I told him, the left arm hangs down while the right one curls around me.
Thoughts? Could this be a mild form of BPI? Should I be prepared to fight the pediatrician on this? What would be the next step - seeing a specialist and if so, does anyone know of one in South Florida (I'm in Miami but will drive north if necessary). I waver between freaking out and thinking that we've done irreparable harm by waiting four months and that this is no big deal. I'm guessing the reality is somewhere in between.
Thank you for letting me get this off my chest. I look forward to any responses.
I have perused this message board and based on the supportive responses I've seen, I was encouraged to post my circumstances. I'm hesitant, because I don't even know if I'm supposed to be here, but will not see my son's doctor for a few days and as you know, once you think something is wrong, it can be an agonizing wait.
Let me start from the beginning. Four months ago my son was born sunny side up in a vaginal delivery. He had difficulty coming out and a vacuum was used. There was no indication that anything was physically wrong with him and I never heard any mention of BPI or the like. He suffers from severe reflux and milk intolerance so the last four months have been spent trying to get him medicated properly as well as finding a formula that he could tolerate. My husband, mother and I have been preoccupied with this as it affected his eating and sleeping. Now that he seems to be settled in that regard, we all noticed, practically simultaneously, that he has a habit of holding his left arm down, with the wrist turned. Of course, I googled it, found BPI, and scheduled an appointment with his pediatrician. In the meantime, I've been reading posts and have not come across an example that seems as mild as what I am observing (and I feel very fortunate that this is the case - my heart goes out to everyone who is dealing with more serious cases). I'm just concerned that if I see my pediatrician and tell her what I'm observing, she'll dismiss it because of all the positives I detail below. So I'm looking for thoughts from those who have been through this.
My son moves both of his arms, though if I had to choose I would say he favors the right arm (the one I am not concerned about). He seems to have full use of the left arm - fingers, wrist, elbow, shoulder - grips my fingers very well with that hand and will wave it around just as much as he does the right arm (he tends to move a lot when he's refluxing). That's the good. The bad - when I change his onesies, he will usually cry when I'm putting his left arm in a sleeve. When he does tummy time, his instinct is to put the left arm down and use the right arm to push up. If I move the left arm into the same position it will stay there, but he is definitely putting pressure/leaning right. He only looks to the right (away from the injured arm) when he's on his stomach and turning his head is hard. For the first few months, he tended to look to the right all the time and we had to work on that to avoid misshaping his head. He doesn't seem to look to the right only when on his back or in a swing anymore but he definitely does it when on his stomach. When I told him, the left arm hangs down while the right one curls around me.
Thoughts? Could this be a mild form of BPI? Should I be prepared to fight the pediatrician on this? What would be the next step - seeing a specialist and if so, does anyone know of one in South Florida (I'm in Miami but will drive north if necessary). I waver between freaking out and thinking that we've done irreparable harm by waiting four months and that this is no big deal. I'm guessing the reality is somewhere in between.
Thank you for letting me get this off my chest. I look forward to any responses.