Hi Nikki,
My name is Janna and I also have a 21 month old with RBPI. We have seen seen a specialist in the Houston area since Ethan was 3 months old and have had physical therapy as well. From the sound of it, Ethan and your son are about the same as far as their recovery. 6 months ago, we were encouraged to get an MRI to see Ethan's progress or lack there of. We just returned from the specialist today and was told that on May 5th, he is scheduled for surgery.
We have gone thru our fair share of doctors (and thats putting it lightly). Most of them wanted to jump at surgery but my husband and I were confident we could do it with therapy. Ethan does not supinate and most doctors will tell you that it should be reached by 15 months (give or take). Ethan keeps his right elbow up when drinking or eating, but just the same, he uses it EVERYDAY for everyday activities.
I was very confident in his recovery but as we are finding out, it is starting to affect his bones, which if not treated, they will never reach their highest potential recovery. Putting in my terms
the ball of his shoulder is sliding back which means his scapula is overcompensating for his movement. So while we think he is doing wonderful, his bones are becoming deformed. The socket that the ball fits in (again, my terms
is no longer round and is starting to create a small pocket just where contact is.
The surgery will cut some of the tissue that is tight in his shoulder so that it allows him to start using the front part of his shoulder. He will be in a cast for about 3-4 weeks and then it will double as a splint that he will wear at night. We are starting small and working our way from there. He will need intense therapy after the surgery but we are confident that we will see improvement in his supination and external rotation.
I tell you this not to scare, promise. Ethan was my first and honestly the doctors really never told us what was wrong with him....told us it was like a stinger you get in football, Ethan would recover in 2-4 weeks. 3 months later, we knew something was seriously wrong. I was terrified and had no idea where to turn. Luckily, I found these guys on UBPN. I am mainly a "reader" but its good to come to play where others are fighting for their kids the way you are.
It never hurts to see a doctor, always trust your instinct, and get lots of opinions. Ultimately, it is your families decision.
Sorry for the vent, this is actually my first time on here in probably 6 months but after hearing the news today, I knew there was not better place to turn for support, even if i am just a "reader"
Please let me know if you have any other questions, like I said, I think Ethan and your son are right at the same stage of recovery.
Best Wishes,
Janna