Subject: Re: anyone else have this happen?
I've got to tell you I can not attribute this injury to my exile. More like this was just one too many. I've been knocked off every bike I've owned and I've been riding for 40 years. I still keep my license current. Talk about positive thinking...
I have spent months in hospitals. One time my right leg and left arm were in traction for like three months! With this (LTBI) I've kind jokingly tell the wonderers, 'hold your dominant hand behind your back for a day and see how much you can, or can't do.' Well, can you imagine being tied in bed by two corners? I couldn't roll over to either side or back/front. God that was a horrible time. To make matters worse, I had been sliced open from stem to stern as I had internal bleeding and exploratory surgery was necessary. As a result, until the wound was healed properly enough, every morning some poor nurse had to clean the 8" long clips and the wound and trust me, what left my mouth those mornings would make the toughest sailor blush. I was captive and it was torture. Then there was the time my pelvis was shattered and another with a fractured skull, broken ribs and punctured lung.
But I digress. With all of my past, when this happened to me and I cried for help, there was none. I was literally the boy who cried wolf. Now nobody hardly believes me that this is by far the worst thing that has ever happened to me. And I'm alone. My family lives up north, you know, cold, snow, dreary, depressing gray skies and did I mention cold? The suggestion that I move back 'home' to be closer to my family including my one year old Grandson has been made with no offer to assist in such a move or a place to stay once there. Not a good time of the year to be in Boston and living in my Tahoe... And the friends and family here(Texas) have paid their token respects and carried on with their lives simply minus Scott. They make it look effortless and yes that hurts. I'm always wondering 'what the hell did I do in my life to warrant this type of cold shoulder? I thoroughly blame myself and can not get over it. I am depressed for the most part. Don't know what I'm gonna do from day to day. Daniel I have teamspeak and headset with microphone. Didn't know I can talk to my machine and have it respond. Pretty cool.
I know I ranted and carried on so, I usually do but I've just know felt the urge to find a topic and see if I could contribute. It's been nice and I'll catch ya'll on the rebound.
Update: April 20 - Wow! What a bunch of nothing.
I think what I was alluding to is the fact that I keep getting up. For myself but with loved ones on board. Through faith, self preservation or shear stupidity, I keep getting up. This time, however, not so easy and definately alone. It's going on three years. I do show improvement in that I can actually bend my elbow and raise my arm now. Hooray! Still don't have a hand but patience is a virtue afterall right? Thing about this recovery...nobody knows and seemingly nobody cares. To me it's a hollow victory. I'm working on it though. Can't roll over and die. s8n, I'm reluctant to use teamspeak, my headset and microphone for fear I'll not give my attention to my right hand typing and more importantly my fear of reaching out to another one of us so closely. Dan, I promise I'll build up the courage before I am healed...
With the testimonies that follow my posting I'm urged to continue. Amazing people are sharing here. I thank everyone who is sharing their positive renforcements, stories, web sites and all. Here is another place to seek wisdom and guideance.
http://www.thesecret.tv/movie/trailer_view.html?l=en
I hope this directs you to
The Secret. I believe in the philosophy. Now I have to believe in me.
Bless you all.
Scott
Ps Please forgive the typos and grammar. I do.
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