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SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 9:40 pm
by MADECAROLIS
Hello all!

First, I would like to say it is comforting to hear all of your stories, and I can totally relate. My right arm was affected and shoulder dislocated and torn nerves. Luckily, my parents spent many hours treating me to physical therapy, acupuncture, and electrical therapy. It was hard being a child and spending all my free time at the hospital and three concescutive years (7,8,9) in a cast. That's right, three surgeries. One to rotate my arm, two to tighten the tendons, three I can't remember. I wish the doctor's knew then what they know now.

If you are a parent coping with your child's injury, please continue treatments and exercise no matter how much they cry. I hated it. I never thought it would work. I still don't have 100% movement, but I'm sure I'm in a better state, than if I had not done all that treatment. I think the best exercise is swimming, running (running makes all the muscles work) and yoga/pilates. Exercise alone can relieve stress and depression. Yes, I am still facing depression but I am genergally happy. I like to remind myself it could have been worse. It was only until 5 years ago, that I finally considered myself disabled. Yes, I'm eligible to get a disabled parking pass because I carry heavy art equipment and my unaffected arm is feeling the pressure. The only problem is, you will be stared at because youo are not walking with a limp. (an old lady yelled at me the other day) She's the first to approach me after 5 years.

I have accomplished so much, despite my disability. I have found happiness in creating art (painting is my emphasis) because it helps me express my inner self and emotions within. I've tried sports, dance, music growing up, but of course it never worked out. Although, I do enjoy running, hiking, and swimming. I always found myself drawn to art, and ten years ago I decided to be an artist. It was the best decision I ever made.

MARYANNE D

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 1:36 am
by hope16_05
Welcome Maryanne!
I just had to comment on your art. I just finnished up an art class and my teacher told me I should continue drawing as it is a good way to express my inner self and my emotions. I am taing painting next semester and I cant wait but I think I will continue to draw, I loved it!

If you have any questions feel free to ask. THere are no silly questions when it comes to bpi's. I am still learning so much!
Hugs,
Amy 20 years old ROBPI from MN

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 10:58 am
by Carolyn J
WELCOME,Maryanne!!

I am glad you found UBPN and posted your message.
I am suggesting to you to Copy and Paste your above post onto the General Message Board too because it is very uplifting and some parents do not come here to this Adult Mesage Board.

Please come back, often,Maryanne. :)

HUGS,
Carolyn J
LOBPI/69

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:19 pm
by Joanie
Amy and Carolyn have said the rest of it better than I could, so I'll just say, "Welcome to you, Maryanne."

Joanie

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 4:49 pm
by Kath
Maryanne
Welcome to the Message Boards. I'm glad you found us and hope to read much more from you. It's a great place to ask questions and vent if necessary.

Kath robpi/adult

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 5:39 pm
by marieke
Yes, Welcome!
Marieke (32, LOBPI)

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 10:32 am
by crw
Welcome "home" :)

I just found this board recently. I suppose I'm in the opposite situation as yourself. Affected on the right side I was never given treatment, exercise or PT in any way. The most I had was a one time visit to a physical therapist and a one time visit to a chyropractor...whom never worked on infants - so I've no clue what damage that possibly did.

Hope to see you around the boards, happy holidays!
~Caiti

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 6:24 pm
by Mare
Amy
Please do keep drawing you are very good at it I wish I had your talent I trace alot but can't draw a good stick figure. Mare

Re: SUGGESTIONS

Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 6:27 pm
by Mare
Welcome MaryAnne
I'm MaryAnna (Mare) I'm glad you found us and plaese post some of your art work its such an inspiration to all especially the younger ones its shows them they CAN DO anything they put they minds and heart into.
Mare