Hi, I haven't posted in a while. I think I just needed a little break as I've been thinking more about Nicole's birth after seeing the 20/20 special and also b/c we recently passed the 3-yr mark since our L&D experience. Anyway, the last time I wrote was when we were having an informal meeting with the school services before the actual PPT Mtg where the IEP would be developed. Well, the informal meeting was rather interesting. It didn't start out too well and it seemed like they were not going to give us any services. Then, after they dealt with us sharing all kinds of info. and reasoning as to why Nicole needs the services, it seemed like they probably changed their minds by the end of the meeting. They were trying to argue medical not educational mostly.
Since then, we also had our actual PPT Meeting last week. They asked Nicole's EI PT to go over her final evaluation #s with them. She did a great job reviewing the #s and giving more info. to qualify how things were accomplished, etc. You see Nicole's scores came out good and the scores alone would not have qualified her to continue to receive services. Her EI PT was a great advocate for Nicole though. This is to what extent that Nicole's EI therapists helped support us -- when they completed Nicole's evaluation, they emailed the write-up to me (at my request) so that I could review it and suggest changes. It was accurate, but I added lots of qualifying comments throughout the document (mainly as to the quality of output and length of time it takes, etc.). I'm so thankful that they let me do this to make the evaluation more complete and give a better picture of the "whole story." We will really miss those therapist!! (
Anyway, back to the meeting, I think the school already had their minds made up before we met and didn't really seem to care what the evaluation said (as far as in determining svcs). I mean, they let the PT go over it, but it seemed to be as more of a formality. The SPED said that based on Orthopedic Impairment that Nicole qualified for services. She's going to get 1/2 hour of PT 1x/wk. She's also going to go to a Playgroup 1x/wk for 1 hour and during the last 15 minutes, and OT will work with her. Then, the OT will continue to work with Nicole 1-on-1 for another 15 minutes for a total of 1/2 hour / week. We're also getting OT summer svcs 1/2 hour / week. The present plan was also set up for next school year and we can meet in the meantime if we feel that there are any issues or changes that need to be made, etc.
I'm writing not only to share this info., but to thank you all for your support and info. Rich from MA has a never-ending list of websites and I got a lot of info. from them which was very helpful. I also know for a fact that the UBPN School Awareness Info. document was great and the SPED commented about it! I will also tell you that some the people we met with at the school last week seemed so different to us. I am quite certain that the meeting would've had a much different outcome had we not been so prepared and "armed" with info. That is just my feeling (and my husband's too) based on how these individuals first came across to us. So, if anyone needs help and I can offer any suggestions please feel free to email me.
Here are some things we did that I believe helped: we brought a huge stack of papers with us (after much research), I tape recorded the meetings (after asking permission at the beginning of the 1st meeting), we gave them a 3-page writeup on Nicole incldg. a picture of her in the splint, we gave them the UBPN School Info. document, we brought someone else with us as an advocate (Nicole's EI PT and OT), and most importantly, we have always prayed prayed prayed for wisdom and strength from Jehovah. He has not let us down and has always guided us to whatever info. we needed to obtain and given us extra strength that we've needed.
Thank you to those who helped and I hope this novel I've written helps others. LOL
-Tina )
P.S. I'm so relieved that this is behind us. AAAHH!!
School Services Update
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Re: School Services Update
I am so glad this is over for you! We've just started the process for Natalie and so far so good. The director and OT seemed so appreciative of all the info and literature I took them at last week's meeting. We do the PT part this week, then get back together after her surgery to finalize everything. We should have everything nice and tidy to start with the beginning of next school year--just four weeks after she'll come out of her splint completely!
Re: School Services Update
Tina
I missed reading your posts.... glad your back and glad you worked things out... if prayer can move mountains why not schools....
Hope Nicole is feeling great....
Kath
I missed reading your posts.... glad your back and glad you worked things out... if prayer can move mountains why not schools....
Hope Nicole is feeling great....
Kath
Re: School Services Update
whaooh! You go girl!! That is great. They are already telling me at age 2 Kait won't qualify- well guess what OH YES SHE WILL!!! Thanks for the tips!!
Re: School Services Update
Tina this thought is not really in reference to your post, I just wanted to tell you that I am glad that you are back posting. Missed you (smile). Call me so we can catch up. Talk to you soon.
DeShawn
DeShawn