Re: Not sure this new Dr. is going to be very helpful
Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:50 pm
Christy
I hear you loud and clear.
I have had way to many visits with doctors like this.
When my third child was born I went to a specialist and he told me nothing could be done and I looked like I had a mild injury.
He did not know anything about OBPI.
Instead of being honest and telling me he was not sure he lied and said nothing could be done.
He also added how good I looked and maybe I did not really have Erb's but a very mild form of it.
I called my family doctor in tears and asked what I really had.
He was so furious with this "Big shot Specialist" that he called him while I was waiting on the other line.
I cannot repeat the things he said. I was shocked at him.
He was such a good gentle person but he lost it.
Now after tests and education and putting the pieces together I know I have a global injury.
I look good because my arm just hangs down and I can use it a little and my hand works ( sort of ).
My arm moves because I have scapular winging and I compensate because I move from my shoulder....
I have a very limited ROM. I have Horner's Syndrome also and always knew my diaphragm was spastic... MILD...
Unless this doctor knows about OBPI and/or does some testing he can't say mild or you look good.
It is now how we look but how we function that is important.
Does your insurance allow you to go out of network for specialists.
Can you get a case worker to approve of your seeing a bpi specialist?
OK, I am rambling and upset because at 33 I was right where you are... and at least I can accept that answer 33 years ago but not now!
Kath ( adult/robpi)
I hear you loud and clear.
I have had way to many visits with doctors like this.
When my third child was born I went to a specialist and he told me nothing could be done and I looked like I had a mild injury.
He did not know anything about OBPI.
Instead of being honest and telling me he was not sure he lied and said nothing could be done.
He also added how good I looked and maybe I did not really have Erb's but a very mild form of it.
I called my family doctor in tears and asked what I really had.
He was so furious with this "Big shot Specialist" that he called him while I was waiting on the other line.
I cannot repeat the things he said. I was shocked at him.
He was such a good gentle person but he lost it.
Now after tests and education and putting the pieces together I know I have a global injury.
I look good because my arm just hangs down and I can use it a little and my hand works ( sort of ).
My arm moves because I have scapular winging and I compensate because I move from my shoulder....
I have a very limited ROM. I have Horner's Syndrome also and always knew my diaphragm was spastic... MILD...
Unless this doctor knows about OBPI and/or does some testing he can't say mild or you look good.
It is now how we look but how we function that is important.
Does your insurance allow you to go out of network for specialists.
Can you get a case worker to approve of your seeing a bpi specialist?
OK, I am rambling and upset because at 33 I was right where you are... and at least I can accept that answer 33 years ago but not now!
Kath ( adult/robpi)