Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

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Nikki A
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Re: Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

Post by Nikki A »

I'm new to this board and I have Erb's Palsy in my right arm. I am 31 years old. Although the injury never stopped me from doing anything in my life, it definitely impacted the way I viewed myself. I have always tried to hide the fact that I have a hanidcap and most people don't know unless I tell them. I agree with most everything that was posted and I just had a big cry and I am so blessed to have found this community of people who understand.
cristina

Re: Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

Post by cristina »

When I read your comments I do the same "cross my arms", but its so hard to meet people because in my culture (mexican) shaking hands is part of respect.
cristina

Re: Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

Post by cristina »

When I read your comments I do the same "cross my arms", but its so hard to meet people because in my culture (mexican) shaking hands is part of respect.
Monica1981
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Joined: Wed Sep 11, 2013 2:44 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: Right arm, Brachial Plexus, 9/26
Location: Chicago, IL

Re: Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

Post by Monica1981 »

Reading everyone's posts has helped me. I now know that other people are going thru what I live everyday.
Carolyn J
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Joined: Tue Apr 06, 2004 1:22 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: LOBPI. I am 77 yrs old and never had a name for my injuries until 2004 when I found UBPN at age 66.

My injuries are: LOBPI on upper body and Cerebrael Palsy on the lower left extremities. The only intervention I've had is a tendon transplant from my left leg to my left foot to enable flexing t age 24 in 1962. Before that, my foot would freeze without notice on the side when wearing heels AND I always did wear them at work "to fit in" I also stuttered until around age 18-19...just outgrew it...no therapy for it. Also suffered from very very low self esteem; severe Depression and Anxiety attacks started at menopause. I stuffed emotions and over-compensated in every thing I did to "fit in" and be "invisible". My injuries were Never addressed or talked about until age 66. I am a late bloomer!!!!!

I welcome any and all questions about "My Journey".
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Sharing helps to Heal. HUGS do too.
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Re: Does Erb's palsy affect your self esteem?

Post by Carolyn J »

VERY DEFINITELY!...I know I would be a totally different person if I had been validated and given creedance instead of being shunned in the "olden days".
Carolyn J
LOBPI/75+++

Thank you to the monitors who bumped this topic up ! We need to be reminded how important sharing with others is healing us too. I only started healing and stopped hiding in 2004 when i found UBPN.
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