I almost hesitate to share our experience Cheri, but since you asked here it is. First and foremost, I REALLY think it is up to each parent to weigh the pros and cons. Each of us has to evaluate our own situation, our child, our thoughts, our ability to supervise, our comfort level, our husband's desire to have a trampoline, since he grew up with one
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, etc., etc.
Do I think they are potentially dangerous? YOU BET, especially if children are not closely supervised, and this is regardless of whether or not there is a bpi. On the other hand, many things I let my child do could be seen as potentially dangerous. I know on Dr. Phil I was portrayed as overprotective, but those of you who really know me, know I am anything but overprotective.
Yes, I must confess, I am one of those crazy moms who have a big enclosed trampoline in the backyard which we bounce on regularly. I have seen much improvement with using the trampoline. Tanner really made gains in balance, coordination and overall strength. In addition, we have had TONS of fun and have shared much laughter on that darn trampoline. We even lay on it at night with blankets to watch the stars and look for airplanes. We have had a trampoline at our home (with many visitors/friends) for the past 16 years and we have been blessed with no injuries. If my son started to get crazy on it, then I would not hesitate getting rid of it, which someday I may find a sly way to do so, if I have to. But for now, the trampoline works for us. We find it therapeutic, and my son LOVES it! We supervise him on it closely and are usually bouncing with him on it at the same time.
I am totally with Claudia regarding letting my child do everything and anything he possibly can. Do I fear dislocation of his shoulder since it was an issue pre-surgery? Yep, certainly it crosses my mind at times. But what crosses my mind the most is just how much I want my child to be happy, healthy and well adjusted kid. I want him to think that he can conquer the world and do whatever he wants. I don't want him to sense the fear that I hold in my soul regarding this injury and I don't want him to fear it either. I certainly don't have the fear part down 100% of the time, not by any means, but I am working at it. It has been a process for me.
Also, the truth is that some children, certainly not any of our angels
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, but some, will go on to sneak in some trampoline jumping at a friends house as they get older. I feel better knowing that my son has experience and an appreciation for trampoline safety, since he may very well end up on someone else's trampoline someday.
The trampoline has been a positive experience for us and I just wanted to share. I can TOTALLY understand people not wanting one. I was leery myself and still can be at times. We all just want our children safe and to protect them. Okay, more than enough trampoline ramblings from me.
Good luck with your decisions. By the end of this post we may have you thoroughly confused! LOL!
Lisa