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Re: TRIAL

Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2004 11:20 pm
by admin
Im sorry, I thought I updated everyone regarding our trial. We won! I felt guilty for 6 1/2 years regarding his delivery. Always thought I should of demanded or insisted on the c-section, instead of asking him constantly if he should do it, but I was a first time Mom and really believed the Doc knew what he was talking about. Anyway, after the verdict I actually woke up the next day realizing that I couldn't do anything and he was wrong not me. I felt like a ton of bricks was lifted from my shoulders. I also think the doctor was so cocky that he believed he was going to win and left the room just prior to the verdict (for an emergency at hospital). I think he thought I was going to attack him or something. But I'm so happy and relieved that its all over. I pray for all those that have to go through that. It's horrible to hear some things. The defense attorney actually attacked me for not bringing my son in to court. Said if he was really that bad wouldn't I want them to see him. My attorney's replied with what I told him. I did not want to put my son thru something like that. I felt he went thru enough already. I did not want anyone pointing out the things he can not do or could do. I always tell him he can do anything that he wants. I thought that would be a bad experience for him. Thank God the jury understood that. Anyway, I pray for all those that will go thru a trial and my advice, stay strong. I thank all of you for sending us prayers and keeping me strong. God Bless.

Re: TRIAL

Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 8:08 am
by Kath
I am so happy you won and glad you can move on.

Does this mean that we will know you by name soon? There are so many Anon it get confusing sometimes.

Glad you won and glad you know now that it was not your fault.
Enjoy the peace
Kath

Re: TRIAL

Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 10:29 am
by Mommyanders
Congrats on winning! I'm glad you have that load lifted off your shoulder.

Kari

Re: TRIAL

Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 10:31 am
by Carolyn J
YES,YES,congratulations. I believe every "won" verdict is a victory for all of us who come to UBPN. The process of your sharing & our support will give all new parents hope,how-to-survive the stress, and courage. We MUST contine to share here...

I agree with Kathleen, there are too many "ANON"'s. Please, now that the trial is over, may we get to know you by name? Ihope so. God bless you and your son.
Carolyn

Re: TRIAL

Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 11:12 am
by Kath
I just realized we may know you already and this information might be under a gag order... did not mean to put pressure on you...
Nancy reminded me of the legal process thanks Nancy.

Kath