Re: Midwives...
Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2003 11:13 am
Prior to my first pregnancy, I would always have opted for a home delivery as I was terrified of hospitals.
Here in the Uk home births are not the norm and one would have to be quite dogmatic to get one in most areas.
I was considered a high risk Mum because of a few factors and Michael was delivered after a long and hard labour in hospital. There were issues surrounding birth asphyxia and feeding problems, so I was glad that
I was in hospital for the delivery ultimately.
Because of the problems when I delivered Michael, when I had Gavin 14 months later (robpi) there was NO question of a home delivery - NO midwife would have agreed to attend.
Gavin's delivery was even worse as it was complicated by a severe Shoulder Dystocia and even though he suffered a group 3/4 injury, I would NOT have wanted to deliver at home, I honestly believe that had we been at home with only one midwife in attendance (that's the norm here) then Gavin would certainly have been stillborn and I might possibly have died also.
Despite the fact I have NOT had good experiences with my deliveries, I don't feel that the reason for the shortcomings lie with the hospital - I just don't think I deliver well- LOL
I am pleased I was in hospital for the deliveries, I truly feel I would have lost both of my children if I hadn't been in a facility with expert help on hand.
I do have some issues with the care given in hospital and can fully understand why anyone would prefer to deliver at home - the continuity of care, familiar surroundings etc etc, but for me, I think we made the best choices
Here in the Uk home births are not the norm and one would have to be quite dogmatic to get one in most areas.
I was considered a high risk Mum because of a few factors and Michael was delivered after a long and hard labour in hospital. There were issues surrounding birth asphyxia and feeding problems, so I was glad that
I was in hospital for the delivery ultimately.
Because of the problems when I delivered Michael, when I had Gavin 14 months later (robpi) there was NO question of a home delivery - NO midwife would have agreed to attend.
Gavin's delivery was even worse as it was complicated by a severe Shoulder Dystocia and even though he suffered a group 3/4 injury, I would NOT have wanted to deliver at home, I honestly believe that had we been at home with only one midwife in attendance (that's the norm here) then Gavin would certainly have been stillborn and I might possibly have died also.
Despite the fact I have NOT had good experiences with my deliveries, I don't feel that the reason for the shortcomings lie with the hospital - I just don't think I deliver well- LOL
I am pleased I was in hospital for the deliveries, I truly feel I would have lost both of my children if I hadn't been in a facility with expert help on hand.
I do have some issues with the care given in hospital and can fully understand why anyone would prefer to deliver at home - the continuity of care, familiar surroundings etc etc, but for me, I think we made the best choices