On a more serious note...
Posted: Sun Nov 03, 2002 9:41 pm
Louise,
Emily was older (13) also when she had the mod quad and was very hypersensitive about her arm and scar massage in particular...
What we would do was get her all settled on my bed, with pillows, etc. and she would have a book that she enjoyed reading (T.V. or a movie might work as well) and then... here's the kicker... I would give her Sweet Tarts, a favorite candy of hers, and she would eat sweet tarts and read a book while I massaged. It still wasn't fun, but it helped make it more bearable!
But now, she can't really look at sweet tarts! Nor can she stand the smell of root beer, which was the "flavor" or anasthesia that she chose before surgery... but we survived!
Despite all the discomfort it was a strong bonding time for us, and believe it or not she looks back on that time with some nostalgia....Go figure!
Blessings to you and sweet Elizabeth.
Sue
Emily was older (13) also when she had the mod quad and was very hypersensitive about her arm and scar massage in particular...
What we would do was get her all settled on my bed, with pillows, etc. and she would have a book that she enjoyed reading (T.V. or a movie might work as well) and then... here's the kicker... I would give her Sweet Tarts, a favorite candy of hers, and she would eat sweet tarts and read a book while I massaged. It still wasn't fun, but it helped make it more bearable!
But now, she can't really look at sweet tarts! Nor can she stand the smell of root beer, which was the "flavor" or anasthesia that she chose before surgery... but we survived!
Despite all the discomfort it was a strong bonding time for us, and believe it or not she looks back on that time with some nostalgia....Go figure!
Blessings to you and sweet Elizabeth.
Sue