Re: Would you choose surg for an obpi child of your own
Posted: Tue Mar 12, 2002 2:47 am
This is really complicated, first off, it is all subjective and if someone said, well, your son (or daughter) has this injury and we can operate and he can get 100% without much trouble, then of course, but we all know the world doesn't work like that and that in this hypothetical situation there aren't any facts, so I'll make some up: so let's say that they are similarly injured to my injury, well, I didn't have much pt as an infant, I actually think none, but my mom and dad did ROM movements for me, etc, and when I was a baby I had a lot less function than now, a lot less, but as I grew I gained some, I'm guessing that this is because muscles and things like that grew up and compensated giving me more function, and that seems like a likely thing to happen, if these injuries are left alone. So, let's say "Otto" my child, has said similar injury, the question is surgery with cloudy outcome, I have had rotrator cuff surgery. It was horrible, the anesthetic made me really sick, and having my arm in a sling was really hard and staples and then there was a lot of pain. A LOT! I'd imagine that the primary or secondary BPI surgeries would be even more painful, so I wouldn't choose it, and theres a lot of crazy psychological issues with surgery, being cut open, hospitals, etc. So, based on my surgery experence, which was as nice as the doctors and nurses could make it, and in the situation of an iffy outcome, I wouldn't choose surgery for Otto. I also think that living with this injury is something that can't be described to people who have not. I think maybe we might see the baby as not whole because of their loss, but I am whole, and Otto would be too, or Estelle, a girl. But then theres four more things:
A. Maybe if the kids who are little now have these surgeries by the time they are my age they will be a lot better off.
B. When i was six months old I jumped out of the crib and dislocated my already injured shoulder , now, it may not have made a difference, but it didn't help.
C. My child won't have this injury because I am armed with the information needed to prevent it that was never given to you parents to the great disgrace of the medical profession. Awareness is the greatest defense.
D. It's funny to give little kids old people names.
A. Maybe if the kids who are little now have these surgeries by the time they are my age they will be a lot better off.
B. When i was six months old I jumped out of the crib and dislocated my already injured shoulder , now, it may not have made a difference, but it didn't help.
C. My child won't have this injury because I am armed with the information needed to prevent it that was never given to you parents to the great disgrace of the medical profession. Awareness is the greatest defense.
D. It's funny to give little kids old people names.