Hello, Diane. Congratulations on your sweet baby girl! Welcome to the board. It's great that you found us, but I'm sorry you had to be here. Many of us here didn't have or find such a support as this for quite a while after our babies are born so you're a big step ahead. I see you already got some great advice here. I'll see if I can add anything.
Firstly, as you start your research, you'll read that most OBPIs recover within a couple of months after birth. Sooo, hopefully, Tess will fall into that category. It is encouraging that she has some hand and wrist movement even though it's not strong yet.
Did a PT or OT show you how to do ROM (range of motion) exercises at the hospital? If not, then you should make an appt. with a PT or an OT asap so that you're doing all the exercises you s/b doing everyday throughout the day. At that age, we did them at every diaper change (my daughter, Nicole, who has a LBPI is 6 y.o. now).
It's also good to start compiling a list of drs. to consult with (such as a local Ped. Neurologist and a couple of BPI Specialists/surgeons -- I always recommend getting at least 2 or 3 different opinions). We've seen Dr. Nath in TX and Dr. Waters in Boston and have had great experiences with both; Dr. Nath performed our daughter's surgeries (she's ahd four). You might not getting in to see a specialist until Tess is over 2 months, but it might take a while to get an appt. so that's why it wouldn't hurt to start making calls soon, just to get things scheduled.
As you see, this board is full of diversified opinions (I hope this thread hasn't confused you too much!!), which as long as it's done peacefully can be good for learning. I've learned so much from this board! Just always remember to put things into perspective in that while many parents here have become somewhat experts, none of us are BP Specialists / surgeons. I find that the info. here helps people to know what questions to ask their dr. b/c often drs. don't give you info. unless you ask specific questions (and the problem with that is you don't always know what to ask).
You asked about disability and I agree with Krista's advice of waiting on that. As long as you have health insurance benefits, the expenses shouldn't get too bad at least at this point. We never got gov't disability b/c I inquired about the income requirement and ours was too high, which meant that it didn't matter what the disability was since the income was the primary factor.
What you can do for assistance at this time is to contact your early intervention (EI) program. They provide a PT and / or an OT to come to your home and do therapy there and teach you how to do it on the days that they're not there. It's very convenient b/c they do the therapy in your home so you don't have to make frequent visits to the hospital or therapy center. There's a great federal site where I found this info. on your state's EI program:
Programs for Infants and Toddlers with Disabilities: Ages Birth through 2
Vanessa Winborne, Part C Coordinator
Michigan Department of Education
Office of Special Education and Early Intervention Services
P.O. Box 30008
Lansing, MI 48909
(517) 335-4865; (800) 327-5966
E-mail:
WinborneV@mi.gov
Web:
www.earlyonmichigan.org/
The link is:
http://www.nichcy.org/stateshe/mi.htm (that takes you directly to a state resource sheet with various organizations and contact names and numbers / email addresses. Keep this list handy. You'll find a "PTI" (Parent Training and Info. Center) which might be very helpful to you in navigating the system. BTW, you'll prob. need a referral from the Pediatrician to set up the intial EI evaluation.
It's interesting that you're looking into finding a craniosacral therapist. I don't see that come up on the board often, although I have a few times. It's surprising to see the term come up with such a new mom. We've never had a craniosacral therapist although I do recall good things being posted.
I'd like to point out to you to keep something in mind when you read info. on this board. Most of the people here have children with moderate to severe injuries. I think that's basically b/c if the injury has healed or even had close to a full recovery, the BPI isn't as much of an issue in those families' lives so they're not here too much or not at all. I'm sure many people never even make it here b/c their baby recovered before they started the Internet search.
You'll find a lot of helpful info. on this site esp. in the awareness section that you'll see on the home page. Another very helpful website is
www.injurednewborn.com, which was created by a Mom of a baby with a BPI.
Another thing I like to recommend to new parents (anyone who was present at the delivery) is that they make some notes about the labor and delivery, anything they remember about prenatal care, etc. and keep a log of all the medical appts. I say this b/c while it might be the last thing on your mind right now, you might possibily want to file a lawsuit against OB/hospital, etc. at some point. If you keep good notes now, it'll make it that much easier if and when the time comes. FYI, if you do file a lawsuit, they will ask if you kept a journal b/c it's very common and you'll be required to give them a copy. I'm not recommending that you file and hopefully Tess will have a great recovery and it won't even be an issue, but it's good to be prepared just in case. We did not have any plans to sue when our daughter was first born. At some point, after we realized that her injury was permanent and severe and required surgeries, we decided to sue. It's a personal decision that you don't have to make for a while.
Well, I'm done with my novel here. Enjoy your precious little baby girl and try to not worry about what the future will bring. Ask any questions you have; we're here to help you. Take care.
~Tina,
bpmom@comcast.net, Mom to Nicole (6 y.o. w/LBPI) & Joshua (1 y.o. w/NOBPI "no BPI")