S.O.S

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Hwee Yong

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Post by Hwee Yong »

Hi Ellen and Kath M,

Thank you very much for praying for my dad.

Just an update, my dad is still in the ICU and is still critically ill. The renal specialist ordered for dalysis for him so he is now undergoing 24 hours of dalysis. One good news is that his blood pressure is now under control and the nurse is slowly reducing the drug they gave him. However, the dalysis is not so smooth because of the blood clotting the machine hours after the dalysis starts.

I pray hard that there will be no more clotting and that the dalysis goes on smoothly and that my dad will be well.


Regards,
Hwee Yong
Angela Butterfly
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Post by Angela Butterfly »

Hope your dad is coming along better now. How is he doing?
Hwee Yong

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Post by Hwee Yong »

Hi All,

My dad passed away on 17 July 2005 2:01am. We are there with him when he passed away. He died peacefully.

I missed my dad very much. When he was here, I used to fuss over him ... worry about this and that.... now that he is gone, I feel so empty.

Take-care & all the best.


Regards,
Hwee Yong
Angela Butterfly
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Post by Angela Butterfly »

Hwee Yong
I am so sorry for your loss of your father. Please accept my sympathy.
Angela
jennyb
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: January 1980 Yamaha RD200 vs 16 wheeler truck, result, 1 totally paralysed right arm. I was 21, now 54. I had no surgery, I don't regret this. Decided to totally ignore limitations (easily done aged 21) adapted very quickly to one handed life, got married, had 3 kids, worked- the effect of the injury on my life (once the pain stopped being constant) was minimal and now, aged 54, I very rarely even think of it, unless I bash it or it gets cold, then I wish I'd had it amputated :) Except for a steering knob on my car, I have no adaptations to help with life, mainly because I honestly don't think of myself as disabled and the only thing I can't do is peel potatoes, which is definitely a good thing.

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Post by jennyb »

Hwee Yong, I'm so sorry to hear about your father. Please accept my condolences, this is so very sad. I know how devoted you have been to helping him overcome this.
Please continue to come here for support if you need to.
Jen NZ
Karen McClune
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Post by Karen McClune »

Hwee Yong,

So sorry to hear about your father. I know how hard this must be for you, its been a year since I loss my dad and I miss him very much.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Hugs, Karen

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Post by lizzyb »

My heart goes out to you Hwee...I know how very devoted you were to him, and there is no doubt that your father passed on knowing this, and was also very very proud of you.

He will always live on in your heart. I lost my Dad many years ago when I was young, and he is still with me and always will be.

You and your family have my very deepest sympathies.

Liz B
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Post by babyryd »

Hwee, I know your father's passing was very recent, but how are you doing? I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a parent is very difficult and I think many of us here can share in your pain if you need support. We know you suffered with him and will continue to now that he's no longer with you, I hope you are able to find some peace in that he no longer suffers from that debilitating pain. You are an amazing woman and your father passed knowing and feeling your love and dedication toward him - you honored him greatly Hwee.
Blessings to you,
Lourdes
Hwee Yong

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Post by Hwee Yong »

Dear All,

Thank you very much for all the nice wordings.

We are coping. Really miss my dad very much but at least we know that he is no longer suffering from all the pains. I guess it will take times for us to get use to my dad not here with us.

I will still visit this website and hopefully will have some contribution here ie to share what I know of tbpi with whoever that needed it.

Take-care & all the best.


Regards,
Hwee Yong
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Post by admin »

Dear Hwee Yong
I am sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain. My dad's father passed away on the 6th June (my grand dad)and it has been a very sad time to all of us too. You and are in my thoughts and prayers
Regards Michael
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