sad news about Nicholas Grandpa/my dad

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momofnickelman
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sad news about Nicholas Grandpa/my dad

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Nicholas' Grandpa has passed away. As some of you remember from a post several weeks ago, I had thought my dad had a neck injury from the way they let his head drop while putting him from stretcher to his hospital bed. That was not the case. He had Sepsis which is a blood infection that attacks the body's systems and organs. It attacked the nervous system first then kept going to other organs. The Doctors tried everything but it wasn't enough and my Dad tried so hard to get better as he was not ready to leave. Nicholas was my Dad's little buddy so he is not taking his death well. My Dad had only been sick about one month so it feels like he was up doing his usual things just yesterday especially to a four year old. My Dad was an amazing father, an even more amazing Grandpa and just a wonderful human being that MANY people loved. He bought Nicholas a bubble gum machine because it would be good therapy for him, he was always thinking about therapy. He was so proud of Nicholas and how far he has come since his flacid arm at birth. He was so grateful for Dr. Nath and the Texas Team and the hope they gave us. He loved getting two handed hugs from Nicholas, like that last one he got from him before being rushed to the ER. He especially liked to watch Nicholas (ROBPI) playing video games using his right toe, he couldn't believe how good he was at it. My Dad was the perfect Grandpa, loving, kind, patient and every grandchild was special to him. He left us with so much love and wisdom. We were truely blessed with having him for a short 77 years. Thank you for letting me share my thoughts.
njbirk
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I am so sorry to hear this news.
What a great loss for you and your family.
My sincerest condolences.

Nancy
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Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I'm sure Nicholas will keep his grandfather in his heart and will forever remember what a special person and friend he had.
Take comfort in the wonderful memories you hold.

Peggy
Kath
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: I am ROBPI, global injury, Horner's Syndrome. No surgery but PT started at 2 weeks old under the direction of New York Hospital. I wore a brace 24/7 for the first 11 months of my life. I've never let my injury be used as an excuse not to do something. I've approach all things, in life, as a challenge. I approach anything new wondering if I can do it. I tried so many things I might never have tried, if I were not obpi. Being OBPI has made me strong, creative, more determined and persistent. I believe that being obpi has given me a very strong sense of humor and compassion for others.
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Georgeann
You have my deepest sympathy and prayers for your family at this very rought time.
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brandonsmom
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What sad news...my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Although I know it's hard...try and remember the good times !Gayle, mom of Brandon ROBPI
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My deepest sympathy, thanks for sharing this sad news. Hope you find comfort in all the support you find here.

I am sure Nicholas as the rest of you will remember all the special things your father has done for Nicholas and your family.

Hugs, Karen
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So very sorry for your loss. Your father sounded like an amazing individual, what a blessing for all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Very sorry to hear about your loss. You will now have a wonderful angel watching over all of you. Your dad sounded very special and just remember how blessed you were to have a man like him in your life. Peace to all of you during this very difficult time.
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So sorry to hear about your loss

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Georgeann,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. What wonderful memories that you have of him and that you shared with us. Please know that we are all here to help however we can.

CW1992
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I am so sorry for the pain you must be feeling right now. He was obviously very much loved. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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