Small obstacles II ...Grrr!

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smith727
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Small obstacles II ...Grrr!

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I just went and gave a womens self defense course and they had a reporter there with a cameraman and a photographer. Can't wait to see that on the big screen and in the paper.
Did I mention that I really, really , really, really hate to have my picture taken? ... I mean really!
Mica
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Scott,

For what this is worth, our family thinks you are amazing. Every one of us (including Aria's grandparents and great-grandparents) read Outreach, and we had a conversation about you over dinner one evening, shortly after the article about you ran in the publication. Our conversation kept coming back to the way you refused to accept anyone's limitation, and how you kept your eyes on your dream (a career in law enforcement) and you GOT IT!

I can only imagine the stupid, insensitive things which have been spoken to you thoughout the years. Our daughter is not quite 15 months old, and I have had enough of them spoken to me to last a lifetime. And, I can only imagine that you would cringe at any published photo which displays your injury. However, to offer another perspective - I'll bet you have no idea how many people look up to you. And, while some stupid, small-minded people might see such a picture and wonder what is "wrong" with your arm, there will be some who see that picture and find new courage to overcome their own limitations. There will be some people who needed that inspiration desperately.

Our family did.
Carolyn J
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: LOBPI. I am 77 yrs old and never had a name for my injuries until 2004 when I found UBPN at age 66.

My injuries are: LOBPI on upper body and Cerebrael Palsy on the lower left extremities. The only intervention I've had is a tendon transplant from my left leg to my left foot to enable flexing t age 24 in 1962. Before that, my foot would freeze without notice on the side when wearing heels AND I always did wear them at work "to fit in" I also stuttered until around age 18-19...just outgrew it...no therapy for it. Also suffered from very very low self esteem; severe Depression and Anxiety attacks started at menopause. I stuffed emotions and over-compensated in every thing I did to "fit in" and be "invisible". My injuries were Never addressed or talked about until age 66. I am a late bloomer!!!!!

I welcome any and all questions about "My Journey".
There is NO SUCH THING AS A DUMB QUESTION.
Sharing helps to Heal. HUGS do too.
Location: Tacoma WA
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Post by Carolyn J »

Dear Scott,
YES, I agree with Mica...you do inspire and you aren't even aware of it! I'll never forget meeting you in Cincinnatti in 2006 where we both got our very 1st BPI Consult/opinion in our lives. I hugged you tight 'cause you are another Scott for me to admire like my own Scott who never lets people stop him from his goals too, and many still try.

I wish I could se a video of you doing your "thing"! I just loved your article in Outreach too.
HUGS, :)
Carolyn J
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smith727
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Thanks guys, that is really very nice of you. It wasn't as bad as I expected anyway. Here is the article if anyone wants to see it.:

http://media.www.miamistudent.net/media ... 0566.shtml
Mica
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Cool article, Scott!!! :)
Carolyn J
Posts: 3424
Joined: Tue Apr 06, 2004 1:22 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: LOBPI. I am 77 yrs old and never had a name for my injuries until 2004 when I found UBPN at age 66.

My injuries are: LOBPI on upper body and Cerebrael Palsy on the lower left extremities. The only intervention I've had is a tendon transplant from my left leg to my left foot to enable flexing t age 24 in 1962. Before that, my foot would freeze without notice on the side when wearing heels AND I always did wear them at work "to fit in" I also stuttered until around age 18-19...just outgrew it...no therapy for it. Also suffered from very very low self esteem; severe Depression and Anxiety attacks started at menopause. I stuffed emotions and over-compensated in every thing I did to "fit in" and be "invisible". My injuries were Never addressed or talked about until age 66. I am a late bloomer!!!!!

I welcome any and all questions about "My Journey".
There is NO SUCH THING AS A DUMB QUESTION.
Sharing helps to Heal. HUGS do too.
Location: Tacoma WA
Contact:

Re: Small obstacles II ...Grrr!

Post by Carolyn J »

Scott,
You are soooo hanesome in your uniform!!! I'm glad they included your picture! good article too. :)

HUGS all around,
Carolyn J
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hope16_05
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: 28 years old with a right obstetrical brachial plexus injury. 5 surgeries to date with pretty decent results. Last surgery resolved years of pain in my right arm however, I am beginning my journey with overuse in my left arm
Location: Minnesota
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Re: Small obstacles II ...Grrr!

Post by hope16_05 »

Great work Scott! I am with you on the picture thing. Not my favorite activity at all. Either way, great job!
Hugs,
Amy 20 years old ROBPI from MN
Amy 28 years old ROBPI from MN
Kath
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Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: I am ROBPI, global injury, Horner's Syndrome. No surgery but PT started at 2 weeks old under the direction of New York Hospital. I wore a brace 24/7 for the first 11 months of my life. I've never let my injury be used as an excuse not to do something. I've approach all things, in life, as a challenge. I approach anything new wondering if I can do it. I tried so many things I might never have tried, if I were not obpi. Being OBPI has made me strong, creative, more determined and persistent. I believe that being obpi has given me a very strong sense of humor and compassion for others.
Location: New York

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Post by Kath »

Scott
Great work!
These kids really need some information and a go to person for help.
It's nice to know your there for them.

I'm with you on the pictures. I hate my picture taken and always have...

But it's a great shot of you!

Kath robpi/adult
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